Less Impulse.
More Intention.
Greater Peace.
For people who value:
Joy • Harmony • Healthy Relationships
What is
House of Love?
House of Love is a movement
helping people live
more intentionally—
guided by love.
Why House of Love Exists?
House of Love began as a
simple conversation between
a husband and wife asking an
important question:
How do we create
greater peace and harmony?
It begins with choosing to
love ourselves and others
—
more intentionally.
However,
being intentional isn't always easy.
We all experience influences
that can shape how we
think and act:
Impulse • Ego • Fear • Pride
Control • Resentment • Judgement
But we have another option.
We can pause
—
and respond with intention.
House of Love
provides principles and tools
for practicing love
more intentionally—
in everyday life.
Our Philosophy
Love is more than a feeling.
It's an intentional way of
thinking, speaking, and acting.
12 principles that guide intentional love.
A decision-making framework for applyingthe 12 Pillars in real-life moments.
The Obstacles
Barriers to Love | Misconceptions About Love
Real Love.
Practiced Daily.
Refining Behavior. Aligning with Love.
House of Love
Welcomes Everyone
This isn't a religion or political ideology.
It doesn't replace your beliefs.
Whatever you believe,
the question is simple:
How do you choose
to show up?
Life will always bring conflict,
challenges, and loss.
But losing our dignity,
respect, and humanity
is not required.
Growing the House
What's ahead for the House of Love community.
12 Pillars of Love Book
A practical guide to the House of Love framework.
— Coming Fall 2026 —
Reflection Companion
On-demand reflection and guidance for real-life moments.
Love In Leadership Book
A guide for leading with intention in the workplace.
Join the House
Practice love more intentionally
alongside a community committed
to growth and shared wellbeing.
Inside the House
✓ Reflections & learning tools
✓ Podcasts & community events
✓ Updates on books and resources
✓ Early access to apparel releases
Welcome Home.
Not Ready to Join?
Start by Following the Journey.
Follow our conversations, reflections,
and events as the movement grows.
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See People.
Not Problems.
Harmony Starts With Us.
Our Apparel
A Reminder You Can Wear.
Our apparel is a wearable reminder to think, speak, and act with love. It also serves as a quiet way to recognize others who share these values.
Begin Within.
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Our Story...
Jerrel & Amanda Ellerby
The Founders
House of Love began by asking an important question:
How do we create greater peace and harmony?
As we explored that question in our marriage, family, and relationships, we began to notice that certain ways of thinking, speaking, and acting consistently led to greater peace, joy, connection, and harmony—not only for ourselves, but for the people around us.
Those lessons became the foundation of the 12 Pillars of Love.
What started as personal growth became a shared mission: helping people practice love more intentionally to create greater joy, inner peace, and stronger relationships.
Not Perfectly. Just Intentionally.
Because we believe that when individuals change, relationships change. And when relationships change, communities—and eventually the world—can change too.
The Movement Begins Within.
Change yourself. Change the world.Join The Conversation
Lead with Love.
In Our Thoughts. In Our Words. In Our Actions.
A husband, father, and lifelong student of human behavior, relationships, and personal growth. Through adult learning, corporate leadership, relationship management and lived experience, I've learned that meaningful change begins with self-awareness and intentional action.
Jerrel Ellerby
– Begin Within –
Love Begins with a Pause.
Be Intentional. Choose Love.
A wife, mother, and advocate for growth and human connection. Through her experiences in childhood development, leadership, adult learning, and navigating life's challenges, she has developed a deep appreciation for compassion, grace, and seeing the humanity in others.
Amanda Ellerby
– Lead with Love –
Think. Speak. Act.
With Love.
Not Perfect. Just Intentional.
House of Love helps individuals, couples, parents, and leaders develop the skills needed to build stronger relationships and live more intentionally.
Through emotional intelligence, self-awareness, character development, conflict resolution, and personal growth, we provide practical tools that help people think, speak, and act with greater love.
Guided by the 12 Pillars of Love and the 4P System, our mission is to strengthen families, improve leadership, foster healthier communities, and create lasting positive change—one intentional choice at a time.
The Movement
Begins Within.
Change Yourself.
Change the World.